The timeline for resolving child custody issues in Ontario varies enormously based on whether you can reach agreement or need a court to decide.
Resolution Options and Timelines
- Negotiated agreement (lawyers): 1-6 months
- Mediation: 2-6 months including scheduling
- Collaborative family law: 3-12 months
- Court — case conference: 3-6 months to first conference
- Court — motion for interim order: 2-4 months (urgent matters faster)
- Court — full trial: 2-5 years in contested cases
The Best Interests Standard Takes Time
Courts deciding custody consider many factors — parenting history, each parent's involvement, the child's relationships, domestic violence history, and sometimes the child's own views. Gathering this evidence takes time.
How to Speed Things Up
- Try mediation before going to court
- Focus on the child's needs rather than positions
- Be responsive to your lawyer and the other party
- Avoid escalating conflict — it lengthens timelines and costs more